• Rejection Therapy: The Game You Win by Actively Seeking Out Rejection

  • 拒绝的诊疗:您赢了游戏因为主动寻求拒绝

  • Fear of rejection is a powerful motivator—or more accurately, anti-motivator. The sting of rejection is sharp (in fact, it actually causes something more like physical pain), probably because most of us consider rejection humiliating. If fear of rejection holds too powerful an influence over your choices, Rejection Therapy may be up your alley.
  • 害怕拒绝是一种很强大的动力——或者更准确些,动力阻力。拒绝带来的刺痛感很猛烈(事实上,它事实上会带来像是真正的生理上的疼痛),可能因为我们中的大多数人认为被拒绝很丢人。如果对拒绝的恐惧感太强烈,以至于它影响到您的选择,拒绝的诊疗可能需要登上您的日程。
  • The free game has one rule: You must be rejected by another person at least once, every single day.
  • 这免费的游戏有一个准则:你必须在每一天至少被别人拒绝一个。
  • It's a simple but clever idea designed to help you build confidence and overcome your fear of rejection:
  • 这是个简单但明智的办法,用来帮助您建立自信并且战胜您害怕拒绝的恐惧。
  • You can think of it as game, but this game involves your life and the treasures are real.
  • 你可以把它想成游戏,但是这个游戏涉及到您的人生和宝贵的宝藏却是真实的。
  • The five objectives of Rejection Therapy are:
  • 拒绝的诊疗的五大目标包括:
  • 1. To be more aware of how irrational social fears control and restrict our lives
  • 1.能够更了解不理智的社交恐惧控制并且限制我们的人生
  • 2. Smash the tyranny of fear and reap the treasures (treasures include wealth, relationships and self-confidence)
  • 2.粉碎恐惧的暴虐,收获珍宝(珍宝包括财富,关系,和自我自信感)
  • 3. Learn from, and even enjoy rejection
  • 3.从拒绝中学习,并且享受拒绝
  • 4. To not be attached to outcomes, especially when it involves the free agency of other people
  • 4.不附加到结果上,特别是当它涉及到免费的其他人的自由选择权
  • 5. Permit yourself to fail
  • 5.允许您自己的失败
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